Peace as Progress
Kindness Embodied
We’re often taught to measure progress in numbers.
How much we’ve done.
How far we’ve come.
Or how much our world looks like the world we accept as successful.
But what if we measured it differently?
What if real, sustainable progress looked more like peace?
I recently saw it written that financial insecurity was causing a mental health crisis.
I could not agree more.
Stress kills—and there are few stresses as devastating as food or financial insecurity.
But in this world beset by outrage culture, it doesn’t have to be all one way or the other. We don’t have to embrace ‘hustle culture’.
We can strive peacefully.
With peace as progress, we make clearer decisions.
The stress response is well-known.
Fight/flight and clear-headed decisions co-exist poorly.
Peace is a condition in which you decide how much time you have.
You decide what you have time for.
You decide what is worth your time because you know your worth.
That’s progress.
We don’t often celebrate this kind of growth because it’s internal.
It isn’t noisy (squeaky wheel).
It doesn’t always result in accolades or metrics.
But it matters far more than we might consider.
Peace is what shows up when kindness becomes embodied.
Peace is not performative.
It is the absence of disruption.
That doesn’t mean you are never angry, hurt, or overwhelmed.
It means those conditions are less frequently your constant companions.
You visit. You notice. You breathe.
Then allow yourself to return to something quieter.
Something truer.
In 360° Kindness, we don’t only consider how we treat others,
but how we are with ourselves.
And when we’re living in alignment, something shifts.
Chasing, performing, and gauging our progress externally become worthless.
We stop turning ourselves into someone we think will be easier for the world to accept.
We begin choosing rest.
Choosing presence.
Choosing to feel happiness as baseline,
because it is the essence of who we are.
Peace occurs when you stop trying to force your way through.
You’re working with yourself now, not against.
Peace heals and grows simultaneously.
There are not many things we can say that about.
It is progress.
Can you simply accept that?
Peace is like a cloud-filled sky or a war-torn city.
The clouds will and fighting will pass.
The blue will reveal itself,
as will state that inevitably returns when we get out of the way.
Peace.
Now, if you’re wondering whether you’re making progress,
you don’t only ask how many things you’ve accomplished.
You can ask if you feel more present.
You can ask if you pause before you react.
You can check if your inner voice is kinder than it used to be.
If the answer is yes, even sometimes…
you’re growing.
And that growth is growth you can trust.
Peace becomes the process AND the progress.
The environment in which kindness takes root.
And from there, everything good grows.


Great post, Mark!
After living much of my life stuck in a state of fight, flight, freeze, fawn, I’ve finally found freedom in peace. The more I practice giving myself peace, the more I find it in my life and in my body. What a blissful state to be in! To stop striving and straining so stressfully, and yet still achieve. It’s not a constant, not yet, but I hope that the more I seek peace, the more easily it becomes me.
I fully believe peace is what everyone is looking for under the surface appearance of craving.